This article was created to help others in this unfortunate situation in an effort to help you attract your business. If you work in a network marketing company who is still doing home parties and other events, I want to say that I am NOT saying this will work for you. This article is simply about what I have learned working the business from start to finish.

I’m here to tell you, if you are struggling in this business, then I’m happy to join you in your journey but, if you want to be on the winning side of this business world, then I want you to know that there are some steps that I’m willing to teach to help you get to where you want to be.

First of all, I’m going to tell you that there are going to be challenges. Don’t ever feel guilty about that. There will be challenges in your business. You are going to have to deal with rejection, not just from family and friends but also from complete strangers. It is just a part of growing this business. It is just a part of life. Accept it and do not look at it as a failure. It is part of growing.

Now I want to tell you that if you are looking at home parties and events as a way to build your business, you may be in for a rude awakening. You have probably been led to believe that this event and this opportunity are the solution to your challenges. This is not the case at all. If you are looking to attract people to you, your business will attract people who are already attracted to you. It will not attract people who are not interested. I’m sorry, but that is not how it works.

If you want to grow your business, you will have to learn how to attract your business. No, don’t get me wrong. People join people. People join leaders. Leaders are responsible for their business growth.

Here’s how I know. When I go to local events and I talk to people. When I am part of groups and I am trying to motivate people to move forward, I am able to do that. When I’m out shopping in the mall with my group of friends and we get the opportunity to talk about how we are feeling about ourselves and how we want our lives to go, I feel that energy. In fact, that’s the way that I was able to start feeling that my business has potential. It just became a natural part of growing my business. This is something that has not been taught to me.

If you want to attract your business, you will have to get your mind into a different place. You will have to learn to let go of trying to control the situation, and start to accept and be in the situation. If the situation is not working for you, change it.

Change doesn’t happen overnight. Change happens when you stop focusing on how you can, and start focusing on how we must.